Why does my mom say "Happy Valentine's Day " to me ? Isn't that gross?

Question

Yesterday, I visited my mom. When I was in the lavatory, she was on the phone . She said on the phone " If my son is still single in the coming 5 years, then I will marry my son " She didn't sound joking when she was saying that. I heard she talked in a very serious tone.

Today, my mom phoned me and said "Happy Valentine's Day , honey " to me. I find it gross. She never says ' Happy Birthday " or " Merry Christmas " or " Happy New Year " to me, but she says " Happy Valentine's Day t" to me ?

I find this totally gross. Because I've never been sexaully attracted to my mom. I find this idea totally gross.

I am a 23-year-old men. My mom is 50 years old


So my mom always fantasizes having sex with me but she suppress her feelings all the time ?

Answer 1

Your mom loves you. You are her baby and almost every mother says happy valentine's day to their children. Hey my mom said it to me today. She may have sounded saerious on the phone but I mean come on you know she wasn't searious. Quit taking what she does so literally. Thank of her sayng thoes things as a nice gesture. Besides when she said that whole marry thing she probablly just was meaning that she knows you will find your special someone and get married she's almost sure of it. Or she just wants you to hear her say that so you will get married sometime soon.

Answer 2

She gave you birth, she kept you in her womb for 9 months, she felt the pain of delivering you to this world. Ofcourse she loves you!! She probably feels bad that you don't have anyone to share your valentine's day. Maybe FOR HER this may be an important day and she might feel as if you may be lonely.



Before assuming such things, think of all she's done for you without you noticing it.



Go get a hobby or a girlfriend!

Answer 3

lmao...

what some questions today!

I wouldn't think it was too normal if she goes too far, other hand... if it is just a Happy Valentines day comment, think nothing of it... a mother fantasizing having sex with her son, or the other way around is just gross- yes!

Answer 4

Saying happy valentines day to someone is simply wishing them a happy day. Totally apropriate for a mother to her child.

Answer 5

Your mum loves you. Sure, there may be a quasi-sexual unspoken presence in all parent-child relationships (after all, you learnt how to relate to the opposite sex through them) but unless she hops into your bed you have nothing to worry about. Just give her a hug and appreciate her

Answer 6

It's a mock threat, it means "get out there and relate to some women, I want some/more grandchildren". Don't take it too seriously, you're too young to be under that sort of pressure, at your age there's plenty of time.

Answer 7

I think you may have misconstrued your mom's words. I am sure she loves you very much but she is not in love with you. We say Happy Valentine to the ones we love and please do not entertain those thought about her.



Relax!

Answer 8

no. i really dont think your mom likes you.

she probably sounded serious because she seriously wants u to get married.

and my mom tells me happy valentines so does my dad.

maybe shes just trying to be nice.

Answer 9

OMG yur mom gave birth 2 u im sure she dont want to have sex wit u!!! be a man and stop acting stupid SHE IS UR MOM!!!!!

Answer 10

we can guess all day long, but only your mother knows what she is thinking. My guess - she wants grand kids and you aren't moving fast enough for her. This doesn't mean she is applying for the job, rather just applying psychological pressure to motivate you.

Answer 11

thats because valentines's day is a day to express uur love to someone so she is trying to tell u that she really loves u i dont find it gross ma bro texted me and said happy valentines day to me.......

Answer 12

in my opinion mom was just joking, and i don't think it's such a bad thing for her to say happy v-day.

Answer 13

Wowza.. Does NOT sound like a normal relationship.

Are you SURE that she feels this way?

Answer 14

That is utterly disturbing.... I'd put a restraining on her and move 403985034985349530985390485 miles away....

Answer 15

eww that is nasty but anyways if your mom sees you in a sexual way then you should stay away from her cause a mom is not suppose to see you that way i think she needs help and that she needs to go to a doctor or something.

Answer 16

Your mum sounds like an inbred.

Answer 17

she only saying it to make u feel better. do u have a valentine?

Answer 18

omg wise up



she loves you



your her son



goodness sake

Answer 19

silly ,no maybe she said it coz she didn't want you feeling left out ,maybe she thinks you don't have any female friends/crushes etc.

She's your mum,appreciate her while she's alive,mine died 2 yrs ago and i miss her sloppy kisses and bear hugs.

Answer 20

grow up.

she loves you and is thinking about you on v-day. seriously. get a life.

Answer 21

your her SON you came out of her body lol so SHE LOVES YOUUUUUUUU!!!! =)



your gross to think shes thinking that ewwwwwwwwwwwww

Answer 22

thats is so gross i agree

Answer 23

I don't think that she likes you like THAT,

because that is pretty sick.

Answer 24

DON'T WORRY EVERYBODY THIS IS JUST A BAD VDAY JOKE...

Well it is VDAY YAYYYYY:)))))

ENJOIIIIIIIII

Answer 25

def a sick fetish! run for the hils!!

Answer 26

Umm.... hmm...

Answer 27

u are sick to think that..yuck

Answer 28

no comments!!!

Answer 29

LMAO! ! !